::: Al-Fatihah :::

Salam,

have you ever heard of "pull the plug" terms?i'm sure those who admires medical tv series have heard that...never ever cross to my mind that i will be facing such situation...to decide whether a person should live or die...on 15/5/09 My very dearest grandmother had passed away...it was a very shocked news to us as she was admitted to the hospitals for a minor surgery...after the surgery my grandmother was fine and was given potassium shot which is a mineral to help the kidney and heart function normally...but after few hours she collapse and NONE of the doctor or nurses realize it until one of my uncle came to visit and found out...when he called for help, THEN ONLY the nurses and doctor take action by giving her CPR...but it was too late..her heart have stopped for almost half hour and her brain was damaged due to lacked of oxigen...even though after that her heart continue to beat, she have to depends on the life support machine...that night she was sent to ICU and i accompanied her in case she wakes up...but, the next morning the doctor there explained to us that the potassium dosage is high for her condition and her heart cannot take it...the doctor said that she wont wake up anymore...medically, she's gone...what we really regret is the doctors giving her CPR didnt even explain to us about her conditions...its the doctor in ICU did...she said we only have 2 options...if we let her in the hospital, they will push her to normal wards and pull the plug and they will let her die eventually or we bring her home and pull the plug...it was my father's and his siblings decision but at this point i wonder, how do we know when is her ajal...what should we do...we know that after pull the plug she only have about 1 hour to breath by herself...we then decide to bring her home that evening coz it is her wish to die at home...at 9.20pm the ambulance came and they place my grandmother at her bed...All of our family was there and we whisper kalimah Allah to her ear...i still can remember her face...i was by her side...at 1025pm, she passed away...the next morning we manage the service and after zohor, arwah selamat dikebumikan di tanah perkuburan keramat...Alhamdulillah, senang menguruskan jenazah arwah...hari yang panas tiba2 redup...jemaah yang ramai di masjid sama2 solat untuk arwah...

Ya Allah, cucurkanlah rahmatMu ke atas arwah Jaiton Binti Yusuf, tempatkanlah dia di kalangan jemaahMu yang beriman...amiin...al-fatihah

PRINCE NEMO BIN ABU

As-salam...

this is my sister's cat (which we all claim as ours)...fina panggil NEMO, fatin n zana call it PRINCE n mak konon nak klasik tiak ABU...aku rasa pening kucing nih tak tau mana satu nama dia...so lastly conclusionnyer nama dia ialah Prince Nemo bin Abu...but still they all call it differently...n bila aku panggil dengan nama apa pun dia leh buat dek jer...

aktif bangat...4 months old...mak beli as fina's bday present masa dia baru 1 month old...now dah besar cam bapak kucing...comel bila dia ngantuk tapi tak comel bila dia ajak main...and ajak main means dia akan paut kat kaki ko n gigit sambil tendang2...sakit wei...n memandangkan my husband tak suka sangat ngan kucing, so apabila dia ajak husband aku "main", aku kena laa cepat2 leraikan dia or mungkin akan kena terajang dia nanti...sabar ye yang...kucing jer tuh...sit NEMO, sit!!!good cat...meow...

Allah Maha BerKuasa

As-salam...

My husband loved fishing (sama cam husband mona!)...He often went fishing when he is in Felda Selancar 3...Mancing udang galah kat sungai rompin, menembak ikan kat lubuk ikan dalam hutan mana ntah, memancing ikan kat alur sungai dalam ladang kelapa sawit...But now, since he hav transferred to KL (to be with me)...dah dekat setahun dia tak mancing...sian gak...so, last school holiday, dia dengan seronoknya siapkan barang2 mancing and went off...

Actually bukan nak citer pengalaman dia gi mancing tapi about a picture that he mms me when he was there...he mms our frens (pok cu n tini's) twin daughter...alahai...dia pegang dua2 macam pro...nak nak nak jugak!!!tini pernah pregnant until 5 months the diagnos with grape pregnancy (where sels multiply but doesn't form into baby)...then second time pregnant dapatlaa twins nih...Allah Maha Berkuasa, dia ganti dengan yang lebih baik...Maybe i can get triplets???!!!

lama siot!!!

As-salam...

Sory lama tak post anything...nak kata bz with work takde pun cuma not in d mood to surf internet...nowadays internet at my house macam &%^%#!!!! geram jer...lama giler even just to view the page...dah bape juta kali call tmnet, the same reason, my house area got cable problem...then fix it!!!takkan dah setahun aku dok area tuh tak fix lagi dari dulu?dodo!!!busan...arggghhh!!!!anyway, im at my mom's for 2 weeks and after negotiate with my sister(who 24/7 depan pc) i get to upload new things into my blog...it's not that great but just a reminder to myself bout the things linger in my mind...i might forget it you know...

::: welcome back :::

As-salam...

my last post is on 2005. at that time i was in my previous office, surfing internet all day long...(u can check out the lame-old blogspot at pinkluvender.blogspot)...now its 2009 and so many have happen since...i have change jobs!i have been married to a wonderful husband (yet!) for more than a year now and we're still honeymooning...babies?not yet...sooner or later...doakan ye...

at 1st i wanna put green pepper purple lavender but thought that ppl might forget about it so to make it easier to remember and becoz i luv the name pinkluvender so much, i would like to remain the name in this blogspot as well...so, welcome back to me!!!

xoxo